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Tuesday, August 13, 2013

39 Years - What an example!

My parents and Matt's parents both have August 1974 wedding anniversaries, so they both are celebrating 39 years of marriage this month.   Congratulations to both of you and thank you for being such wonderful examples!  Luke and Claire, take notes, we sure are:)

Sibling love
We were able to celebrate with my parents on their actual anniversary, as we headed up to Wisconsin for the annual family reunion a day early to spend time with them.  We spent the day at the Milwaukee County Zoo, then had a wonderful steak dinner at home.  The zoo was quite the experience.  Luke was being a real handful (read: naughty disobedient toddler), so it was not as exactly as I had imagined our zoo outing in my head.  We started with some really unusual and awful traffic getting into the zoo.  After an hour of sitting in traffic trying to enter the zoo, we finally were in and then it took about another 90 minutes I'd say before we actually saw one animal.  Between multiple trips to the bathroom trying to get Luke to go and him violently resisting yet obviously needing to go, Claire crying because she was hungry, temper tantrums from Luke for various reasons, Claire pooping her pants, Luke pooping his pants, Claire throwing up, Luke trying to climb into the enclosures and getting time out, then all of us needing to eat lunch - we had a bit of a false start for the actual zoo activities.   Thank goodness Mom and Dad were good-natured and easy-going about all of it, because it felt a little stressful there for a while.  Matt and I are just hopeful that this is not a preview of our trip to Disney World in a few weeks!!!

This is Matt and I after a couple hours of the zoo:


The family reunion was nice.  It is in Mazomanie, WI, which is about 3 hours away from our house, which is why it was nice to break up the drive there at least by getting half way there the day before.  The reunion is for my grandmother's side of the family, since she was 1 of 16 siblings.  With so many siblings, my Dad has a ton of cousins, and we have a ton of second and third cousins.  This is a picture of my Dad and his first cousins - just the ones that happened to make it to the reunion this year - there's even more!




Here are a few updates from the week:

- Luke has learned how to throw a Frisbee, and he's really pretty good!  He can throw it really far, I am quite impressed.  Catching it is not as developed of a skill, yet.  He instructs me on how to catch his throws though, "Momma, put one hand out and one hand by your side and catch the Frisbee."  Yes, sir.
- It was the annual "Lake Forest Day" in our town, which meant a mid-week carnival for Luke.  He is old enough to ride a lot of the rides now, and he had an amazing time.  We went on Tuesday night and it ended up absolutely pouring so we spent a bunch of time huddled underneath one umbrella (all 4 of us) trying to wait it out so we could use up our tickets we bought.  He ended up going on a few rides, grinning from ear to ear with happiness, and when we were driving home he declared "That was fun!" without us inquiring.
- Potty traning is still sticking.  Pooping and night time are still the development areas (as we say at work about things that aren't going as we'd like).  On the 75 minute trip up to Mom and Dad's house, which was really Luke's first real car trip not in a diaper, we stopped for Luke to go three separate times.  The first time he claimed he had to poop, so we stopped at a gas station.  Matt got him out, got him in the bathroom, got the little disposable cover thing out for the public toilet seat, got Luke situated on it - you know where this is going - and Luke strains to go a little and then announces "Nothing!".  What?!  So the second and third time he said he had to go, we literally stopped on an off ramp and he peed into the grass on the side of the road.  Is that wrong of us?  Matt was speculating on if this approach would work for Claire, too, when the time comes.  


Pictures from all the activities:
Lake Forest Day - flying the helicopter ride
Going into work early one morning I saw this lovely sunrise 
Taking a rest on the bench.  This is a favorite pose for him, with his arms behind his head.  He lays like this on his bed, too.

Puppy dog loves to sleep on top of stuff - here he found a comfy spot on my throw pillows.
You can't really tell - but she has crazy hair here after her bath.
Donna, Emil, Matt, Isolene, Luke & Claire all went to the Lake Forest Day parade on Wednesday.  They also hit the carnival again now that it wasn't raining.

Watching the parade

Gram going on the Dizzy Dinosaur ride with Luke.


These smiles are priceless.  

Making homemade play dough with Isolene

Climbing the tree at the zoo ticket booth area.

Stingray petting exhibit
The bears were Luke's favorite part of the zoo, he told us.
My favorite part of the zoo was when Mom would handle Luke and we could have a rest.  

It's a good thing Claire is sooooo easy.  Once we fed and changed her at the beginning she didn't make a peep the rest of the day.  
Popcorn hog
Happy Anniversary!!  Lovely night to eat outside.

Claire is amused by Dougal and Dudley and tries to pet them
Reunion time!  
Grandma and her remaining siblings

This is my generation of cousins
Mackus family picture

Jason and Ian keeping it cool

Claire trying to pull Grandma's earring.

She's getting so interactive with all her toys now, especially now that she can sit up to play with them.

sweetie pie



Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Blueberry Bonanza

Growing up I have vivid memories of blueberry picking with my maternal grandmother in the blueberry fields of North Central Indiana. We had blueberry picking hats and big coolers to put all those plump berries in, and the folklore is that Kristin once threw up from eating too many blueberries.  I was excited to share the experience with my own family now, cultivating new memories while having fond flash backs of my Grandma winking at me while popping berries in her mouth while picking.  The experience did not disappoint.  It was a beautiful summer day and the pickin' was fine!  Luke ate so many blueberries we were sure he would follow in his aunt's alleged upset stomach footsteps, although he didn't.  The kid seriously ate handfuls and handfuls of berries, hardly getting any into the bucket at all.   He had a grand time, though.  





Swiper swiping berries from our buckets throughout the morning.

Potty time (for Luke that is)!

Since we had to drive pretty far out into the country to get to the nearest u-pick blueberry farm, we decided to hit some other sights before we headed back to suburbia.  It just happened to turn out that we were but 5 miles from the IL Train Museum - what a coincidence.  Luke was in heaven at the train museum, it was tough to get him out of there. 






Riding the trolley

As if that wasn't fun enough, we had planned to "camp" in our backyard that night to do a dry run of a camping experience before we tried the real thing someday.   So when we got home from our blueberry and train outing, Matt set up his parent's tent, we had a bonfire and then the three of us slept in the tent all night in sleeping bags.  (We decided to keep Claire in her crib for this "dry run", keeping the monitor close by. Spumoni also decided to sleep inside!)  While it was fun to have s'mores and sleep in a tent and use flashlights and listen to the cicadas and all, I think I got my "camping" itch scratched and I'm good until next year:)  Full disclosure, I actually didn't end of sleeping in the tent all night.  I got up around 3am to feed Claire, and then went back to my regular bed instead of going back into the tent.  It was because I didn't want to disrupt Luke and Matt by crawling back into the tent and sleeping bags, it certainly wasn't because I wanted to get a better stretch of sleep!  

Hot dog cooking

There's our little tent

S'mores


Reading stories before bedtime for Luke in the tent.

On Sunday Mom and Dad came down because Mom and I had a bridal shower for cousin-to-be Julie in Schaumburg.  Before we left Mom fed Claire her first solid food since rice cereal, avocado!  Claire was not a fan.  The shower was nice, and it was great to see all the Kurz side relatives.  The highlight may have been when cousin Tracy's new baby Nora came to meet everyone.  She is just a few weeks older than Claire and it was wonderful to finally meet her.  Quite a smiley girl.

Avocado time!

Not sure about this stuff...

Kurz family table.  The shower was beautiful and elegant.

 Bride and groom to be

Tracy and baby Nora

Aunt Barbara and Nora

Really cool shower idea - everyone brought a bottle of wine with a stated 'occasion' when the couple should drink the wine.

Cupcake cake

Hanging out with Grandma & Grandpa enjoying a Chinese food dinner, after the shower, but before they went home.



Kid update news, spoiler alert, most of this week's are about Luke:
  • Luke likes to run full speed into you on purpose and then say, like he's surprised he ran into  "Oh, sorry!  It was just me!"  As if it being "just him" makes the collision ok.  
  • Luke likes Matt to wrap him up in one of his blankets and carry him around like a sack of potatoes.  
  • On Matt's nights to put Luke down, he usually takes a shower instead of a bath, and after he gets out of the shower he runs down the hall naked shouting "MOMMY!!  I TAKED A SHOWER!!!!"  No matter how many times I correct him with "you TOOK a shower" he says it the other way.  I'm going to be kind of sad when he starts getting it right, to be honest.
  • I'm typically in Claire's room feeding her when Luke comes back from his shower, so after his declaration of having taken a shower, he comes into Claire's room and dances and swings his arms to the lullabies that I have playing as part of Claire's bedtime routine.  Sometimes he invites Matt to come and dance to the lullabies with him, and sometimes he tells Matt to "stay out there".  (Separately, he can get pretty bossy - we'll have to nip that in the bud.  We're trying to get him to understand the concept of being "respectful".)
  • Potty training is still going well.  He can pee all my himself with no help from an adult.  He likes to sing the Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood song (a cartoon he likes to watch) which goes "When you have to go pee just STOP!  And go right away!  Flush and wash and be on your way!" when he's going through the steps.  A couple times, though, he has tried to pee standing up by himself and it has meant a puddle on the bathroom floor because our toilets are too high for him to reach properly.  He also had a tendency to tuck his shirt into his pants and underwear when he pulls them up, which is really funny.  I would say he is almost 100% potty trained with the peeing when he's awake.  Sleeping is another story, he is still having tons of accidents on that front during nap and night time.  The pooping is also another problem, he doesn't tell us when he has to go and is constantly having accidents in his underwear.  Yuck! 
  • This isn't really new, but I just thought I should document that Claire is generally a super happy baby, but the only time she gets mad and really loud is when she's hungry.  She goes from happy to super upset in about 3 seconds when she decides she's hungry.  I think she gets that from me:)
Tooting on his toy trumpet that he earned during potty training.

Last concert in the park of the season!



Luke showing all the ladies his bum...I mean...dance moves!

Sweet cheeks



First Pigtails!!!  Look at that little bald spot in back, she's got a baby comb over.